I remember when my grandpa would help me with math homework until I reached
middle school. I remember his face and
his eyes when he said he could no longer help me because he didn't go past 5th
grade. He had to work in the cotton
fields. Working was so much more
valuable than education was at that time.
I'll never forget how that realization made me feel. I still think my grandpa is the smartest man
on earth and he houses an immense history database in his brain.
As we work on my son’s science project, I think of the many
parents whom have language barriers or didn't study that far in school. How hard must this time be? How do you explain the scientific method to
your mom whom only speaks Spanish? How do
you explain a hypothesis to your dad who is never home because he’s out working
from sun up to sun down to provide for your family? I think this is where the drive to succeed
comes from (because you have no choice).
I think many of us take for granted the extent to which we
can benefit our children by helping them.
I think some children also take for granted that their parents know what
they are doing (with easy access to the internet), while other parents can only
hope that the neighbor or good friend can help.
Lord, I ask that I don’t take quality learning time, with my
son, for granted. Help me to stay
focused, to use my words wisely and to allow my son the growth that is needed. I pray that the children, who are unable to work
with their parents, find an adult that is more than willing to assist them
both.
Amen.
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